When you paying for your date at the restaurant – you not really impressing him or her with amount of money you are able to spend (remember – there is always a bigger fish). Paying for your date is viewed by many girls as a privilege (as one of my female friends put it on her lousy date – “You haven’t earned the right to pay for me yet. And hardly will.”) Girl may ask if you need help with a bill, she may even dive into her bag for the money. Don’t be fooled – she doesn’t want to pay. She’s testing you. If you have any intent to continue to see that woman again some time in your life and not get spit in your face – you must pay for her.This is a very touchy subject, but it has to be cleared out. The reason why you must pick the place for a date is because you know your budget. Don’t spend all your money on a first date. Mind your budget, pick something that will not break your bank. Check Zagat or Citysearch, make sure the you have a backup plan or call in advance and make a reservation. It is the attention that matters, not the amount of money nor the scale of the restaurant.
Speaking of location – once you picked the place make sure you can afford most expensive dishes on the menu. Some dates like to order the most expensive thing out there just to see how you would react. The decision is up to you, but if I see a girl ordering the most expensive meal on the menu – that’s her last date with me. First date is not about food, razzle-dazzle and how much money I can spend on her. The first date is all about first impression. Make sure it’s a good one.To sum things up – pick a known place or a place you think she would like. Make sure you can pay for both and don’t let her provoke you in any way. That, actually, is a way to prove you have self-confidence, show her that you are cool. That’s what can win you those brownie points and get you ahead of the competition.
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